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Following these five simple tips can help you make a great first impression on your in-laws. The key lies in being respectful towards the elderly.
A first impression can be changed over time, but it’s always wise to begin with a healthy foundation.
The Indian matrimonial system is not just about the bride and the groom but involves winning the approval of your in-laws. Meeting your in-laws for the first time is a crucial part of your wedding journey, and may determine your relationship with them. It can also impact your dynamics with your partner. Gestures and conversation in the meeting can make or break your first impression with your in-laws.
If you’re about to meet your in-laws for the first time, we have prepared a list of list of 5 mistakes you must avoid while meeting your in-laws for the first time:
Don’t Be Late
During a recent appearance on the Great Indian Kapil Show, philanthropist and author Sudha Murty shared a sneak peek into her love story with Infosys founder Narayana Murty. She said her father, a college professor got a bad first impression of her husband as he was two hours late while meeting him for the first time. This highlighted the fact that being late can ruin your chances of making a first good impression with your partner’s parents. Many elderly people are particular about time and may consider you irresponsible if you get late on the first meet.
Listen More
If you tend to talk more than you listen and end up talking too much about yourself, your in-laws are bound to reject you as a snob. It is important to present yourself as a humble person who is genuinely interested in keeping their ward happy and safe. You can ask a few questions about your in-law’s likes and choices, which might work in your favour.
Avoid PDA
While the modern world allows free expression of love, public displays of affection in front of Indian parents are a big no! If you tend to engage in it, it would present you as disrespectful and ill-mannered. Make sure to maintain a distance from your partner in front of your in-laws.
Show Respect Towards Their Culture
Indian society is a diverse fabric of several cultures and customs. While your upbringing may be completely different, make sure to give space to your partner’s background too. A gift related to their ethnic roots can be considered a thoughtful choice. Moreover, you can show interest in their traditions and customs that would reassure your in-laws that you’re a person with a healthy approach.
Offer To Help
Offer help to your future in-laws so that you do not appear lazy. Subtly ask your partner beforehand before intruding in their kitchen and other spaces. If they decline, graciously accept their hospitality and do not push them.
While a first impression can be changed over time, having a healthy beginning is always a good idea. You can ace the first meeting with your in-laws by avoiding these simple mistakes.
