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Ghosting refers to a way of ending a relationship with someone suddenly by stopping all communication with them.
Ghosting can be bewildering, frustrating, and many times, hurtful. (Photo: Shutterstock)
In the world of modern dating, ghosting has become disturbingly common, leaving people hanging and scrambling to figure out what went wrong. It refers to a way of ending a relationship with someone suddenly by stopping all communication with them. Ghosting can be bewildering, frustrating, and many times, hurtful. It’s a confusing experience that leaves one questioning everything—what happened? Was it something I said? Why the sudden silence? The phenomena often gives way to an emotional whiplash and has unfortunately become all too familiar.
Relationship coach Javal Bhatt recently shared his thoughts on Instagram, advising against ghosting in any form. He explained that suddenly cutting off communication with someone can have a profound emotional impact, affecting both their mind and heart. He pointed out that when you’ve been engaging in pleasant conversations with someone for a while, abruptly stopping contact—whether by giving them the silent treatment or blocking them without reason—leaves the other person confused and uncertain.
Bhatt emphasised that rather than disappearing without a word, it’s far more respectful to have an honest discussion, even if it’s uncomfortable. He believes that providing clarity and closure is always better than leaving someone in the dark.
He further noted in his Instagram post that ghosting is never a wise choice. He mentioned that while it may seem easier to ignore someone or cut off communication, this approach ultimately causes more harm than good. According to him, while it might be challenging to express the real reason behind distancing yourself, failing to offer closure to someone who once made you feel special can lead to deep emotional trauma. This lack of closure, he pointed out, often results in trust issues in future relationships.
He also spoke about the wider consequences of ghosting in today’s relationships. He noted that society often wonders why it’s hard to find a life partner, suggesting that the problem lies in the increasing emotional distance and superficial nature of modern interactions. He urged people to prioritise kindness, empathy, and genuine human connection if they want to build a world where meaningful relationships can flourish.
